Geez, where did the time go? I am married! After all the showers, parties and separate preparations, we finally tied the knot. It was beautiful and sentimental. The best part was being together alone for an entire month.
Our honeymoon was in northern Thailand for three weeks. I cannot describe everything that we did (that's for a different blog), but it was life changing and we came back rejuvenated by the Thai culture, people and spirit.
That being said, FDR is the process of secondary applications and even got a couple of rejections already. Rejection is an interesting thing. He was so worried that the rejections from these particular schools would crush me; however, my initial reaction was almost detached. Ok, that rules out that option and moving on...but I had to assure him that he must also move on and not think for one second that I was disappointed in him. There are plenty of other secondaries submitted and to be submitted. Regardless if he goes to medical school or not, the big picture is we will be fine. This is far from earth-shattering news. We will have a roof over our head, food in our stomach and each other.
Going through this journey together while physically apart has been a journey of perspective. I realize that reflecting with friends and family is impossible. They cannot connect to our experience because they cannot understand our relationship can be fortified by the functionality.
Side bar, a friend sent me this fun article about technology and long distance relationships: http://www.mashable.com/2012/10/26/vibease-sex-toy-app/
I personally dowloaded the "Pair" app which is really cute.
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